贾平凹散文《新的一年,学会拒绝》,请欣赏

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Walking in the world, accepting or rejecting, loving or not loving, giving up or clinging. Everyone should have a heart of acceptance and tolerance, but also learn to refuse. I refuse to be numb.

Although the tempering of life makes too much enthusiasm to make a cloud of smoke, but can not let the feelings grind out the old man.

If there is no cloud to let the eyes fly and chase, then what is the fun of life?

I refuse to be bright forever.

Because it is an illusory dream, pain can make me grow and make me strong. The rain and snow in my life made me able to clearly see the road under my feet in the spring dream.

I refused to fold the blooming flower, which is destroying the beautiful life.

A fragile slender flower stem, after a lot of struggle and pain, blooms beautifully, how can I bear to destroy the happiness of others for personal lust.

I only looked at it from a distance, silently praying for the miracle of nature to open every corner of life.

I refuse to gamble tomorrow with youth.

In the precious season, how can it stand up to a lot of money, and the money can be recovered, but whether it is an hour or a minute. there is nowhere to be found. Youth belongs to oneself, grasp it, use it, cherish it, and harvest the fruits of the golden autumn.

I refused to be the gentle flower on the window sill that was afraid of the wind and rain. They could only sigh the changing weather through the glass window.

One day, the wind swept past the sinister window, and the delicate flowers plucked, falling and regretting and sad. I admire women who are shouldering shoulders with men and gain the respect and life of the world with their intelligence and charm.

I admire the woman who has some pride. She relies on her shoulders to provoke the burden of life. She gets out of the hall, gets the kitchen, rolls up her sleeves to kill the chicken and slaughter the sheep, but it also has a kind of warmth.

xx我拒绝生命中的痛苦,虽然我无力阻止即将到来的事情。

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我听过一个故事:有人去禅师寻找减轻痛苦的方法,禅师让他知道。在第一天,禅师告诉他他已经意识到了什么。他不知道,他举起戒指来击败他。

第二天,禅师再次问道,他仍然不知道,禅师再次抚养他并再次击败他。

在第三天,他仍然没有收获。当禅师举手战斗时,他阻止了它。所以禅老师微笑着说:“你终于意识到了这个真相.拒绝了痛苦。”

我拒绝牺牲自己的青春,美丽甚至情感来满足虚荣,金钱和地位。

生活中的诱惑也充满了罪恶和陷阱。女人的美丽是大自然的恩赐。它是真,善,美的化身。它就像一块无辜的玉石。它绝不能被世界污染。女性必须依靠自己的能力和才能。应得的地位和尊重。

我拒绝听罗密欧与朱丽叶的故事。

虽然他们喜欢坚强,但这是悲剧的结束。我只希望现实中的爱有一点浪漫,微风,短暂的雷雨,它总是一部沉闷而快乐的喜剧。

我多年来一直拒绝祈祷,流下眼泪,责怪时间的无情。

虽然,年轻人已经在日历页面上默默地消失了,生活中写下了我眼中的经历,白色长丝,但我相信女人的青春在于她的心态。美丽而渐渐消失,魅力永存。

我拒绝一种明确的爱。

爱无法用言语解释。这是一种相对难以形容的情感遭遇,使人们失眠和困倦。当他们见面时,他们相对沉默。经过许多笑声和泪水,徘徊和堕落,他们只表达了一个难以形容的词语爱情。

我喜欢冷静地看着情人的眼睛,微笑和面对幸福,无言以对话,齐头并进。

我拒绝受到爱的伤害,拒绝让激情疯狂地燃烧,苍白的灰烬因令人失望的冬天而疲惫不堪。

拒绝表面并接受深刻。拒绝憎恨并接受宽容,关怀和宽容。拒绝虚伪,接受诚意。

诱人的道路在你的脚下延伸,如果你学会拒绝,你就不会误入歧途。

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